Why do we always complain about the person we are with to others but then take them back with open arms?
I asked this question the other day in hopes to come to one clear answer as to why so many people put themselves through so much pain. The responses I got were just about the same; we have history together, we love each other, we sometimes just push each other’s button or my favorite response opposites attract.
The one answer that stood out the most to me was from a male friend who decided to give his relationship one more try. He felt she was worth it at the time. When he said this I thought to myself why would you put time and effort into something that you aren't for certain about? However, once I thought about all the chances I gave someone at one point thinking things would get better, I realized that that’s what love is all about, taking risks for the person you see fit as your companion. The only hard part is making that decision. The only advice I can give you is if you do decide to take back that person and try again make sure you don't let everyone know everything. You will look like your holding on to a lost cause. No one truly knows your situation but you. Good luck on whatever choice you make.
~Amore~
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