I used to think that titles meant something and once it was in place there were certain rules both parties knew. I was definitely wrong. Just because you are given a title doesn't mean things are going to change or last for a long time. Take note from the very beginning of your relationship. If things aren't going the way you want them to don't think it will get better once you make things official. If anything that's one sure way to let the other person know its okay to act a certain way and still reap benefits. Also adding title doesn't help it actually adds more work and sometimes only slides the dirt under the rug. Relationships are hard work. Two people have to put time and effort into it. If it was a one man show you would be considered single. So before you rush into having titles for that special someone make sure things are the way you want it to be. Don't settle be willing to compromise, remember it takes two baby!
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