Grown Men and Gossip Pt.2 (The Other Woman)

Last weeks post I talked to the men about gossiping with other women and how it can cause relationship issues. I also stated in that post that once the info is out women can either help or destroy the relationship. If you didn't read it here's a recap. Pt. 1 Well ladies today I want to address your faults in this issue.  Confronting the other woman.

Please do yourself a favor when you realize your relationship issues have been exposed to another woman. Don't confront her...at all.....ever. This is what she wants and you would look like a fool. I won't say she didn't know because she did.. The person you should definitely speak with is your beau.  When you confront him don't be the crazy girlfriend. You know the one you see on TV breaking things, yelling while moving herarms all over the place. Instead talk to him in a calm yet stern voice. This will scare the shit out of him. He expects you to go crazy just so he can have a reason to leave. So that the other woman can have him. She wants to destroy what you have and he is possibly stuck in the middle. (unless this is his way of saying I'm done) This is when you have the decision to work it out or leave. Hopefully its not too late to repair the damage that has been created. Only thing is that once he breaks your trust which he has done it takes a lot to repair it. Are you up for the challenge?

~Amore~

Grown Men and Gossip Pt.1

Men gossip more than women do. Point blank period. If you didn't already realize that then you must be living under a rock. Glad you're back with us. So..I don't have a problem with men gossiping because I do it daily. The problem that many other women and I  have is when you open your mouth to other women about our relationship issues. You are causing more trouble than you know. Well....there is probably a reason behind it but that is another post for another day. When you tell another woman your relationship issues she has two options; help or destroy. Let me give you an example;

Mike:Things are not going well with Ashley and I.
Dawn: Really??? Whats wrong?
Mike: I mean she just complain about little stuff. I told her I was with the guys and I came in after 2am.
Dawn: Why would she be upset you told her you was hanging out it ain't like she don't spend time with her girls! Just silly.I mean the clubs are open to at least 3.She act like you was with another girl. You sure do know how to pick them.
Mike: That's exactly what I said. She just don't know that I....never mind I just wish she could be understanding like you.
Dawn: Ain't nobody like me babe.(chuckles)

I could be exaggerating but sooner or later this is guaranteed to happen. Women can be very manipulative and competitive when we see something we want. I want to talk more about this the next two days since other things also factor into this issue.

~Amore~

Who cares its just Facebook

Short and sweet is what its gonna be tonight peeps.

When I first registered for Facebook, I was excited to reunite with people I haven't seen in a few years. Now I look at it as an excuse for people to be nosey or cause drama. I rarely find myself posting statuses throughout the day. Now I'm not saying I don't look at the website during the week because I do.
However, I usually see the same things; relationship updates, party invitations by club promoters or friend request with people I don't even know. Its so frustrating. To be honest every time you change your relationship status from single to complicated it makes you look indecisive. Just because we have six mutal friends doesn't mean that I know you personally, we just hang around the same crowd. I know you are doing your job but seriously Im not interested in parties that have sexual innuendos in the title such as Barely There Party. Not my thing anymore so sorry. I now see why many of my friends are deleting their page.

Are you fed up with Facebook as well?

~Amore~