Second Best

Relationships are never easy. It can become even more complicated when you add another person to the equation. Whether it is emotional or physical cheating, its still the same. Someone is playing second best.

Sometimes you can fall victim to this without even realizing what is going on. You might have a platonic friend that is in a relationship and tells you all their problems. Mistake number 1. Don't allow them to confide in you especially if there is the slightest attraction between one another. You might begin to take sides and become emotionally attached. Thinking they will leave their partner is mistake number 2. That will never happen and if they do it rarely will be you.

Physical cheating is being selfish plain and simple. You feel as if two are better than one when really you should just be single. If you cant commit fully to one person why hurt their feelings? People react to things differently what you might feel as a small mistake they may see as grounds for a breakup. That's when things become messy.

Relationships are difficult but with hard work anything is possible.

~Amore~

Relax and Unwind

Hope you all had a great weekend. Since it's Memorial Day some are still enjoying their three day weekend. So, its official summer and I have absolutely nothing planned. Only because I plan to relax and unwind before the fall semester of school. Last weekend was very relaxing, I spent time with my family and my sweetheart.

Friday I went to a new poetry spot called Nashville Social Exchange, it was very nice. Something different than the usual club or bar scene. Everyone was cordial with one another. there was a live band and they rocked the house, every member was great at their own talent. Saturday I spent the afternoon learning  more about my area. Since I recently moved I still don't know where everything is. It was quite an adventure, good thing my sweetheart was there to guide me along the way.

Saturday evening I played cards at my cousins. I love playing cards with her. We talk a lot of trash especially me and I usually end up losing. Or maybe I just let her win. I will never tell. But, that is usually how our impromptu parties get started. All we need is a deck of  cards, a little family gossip and a good bottle of wine. Sunday I went to a birthday party with my sweetheart. It was nice. His cousin, the birthday girl had a great time. She had so many cards and cash!! I realized that I will be having more parties in the future. Hopefully I be as lucky as her when mine comes.....(June 16)

Today, Monday, I hope to get some things around the house done. I still have a few things here and there to put up. But I couldn't do that until I talked with my followers. I also want to get finished with my list.  (The List) I'm currently working on number 3 cooking more and trying new meals.

How was your weekend? Did you spend time relaxing or was it a busy three days? If you started a list how far are you from completion and what is going to be on your next list?

 Have a great Memorial Day!!!

~Amore~

No One's Perfect/ Breaking Promises

So if you can recall a previous post Welcome Back I stated that you wouldn't have to wait longer than two days for a new post. Clearly I was unable to keep my promise. But if you didn't know by now promises are meant to be broken. I didn't want it to happen but life happens. We do it all the time ladies, like when we change our mind about different things, we have broken a promise. You might not say i promise but by just speaking what your plans are its a commitment that the other person is expecting to happen. So if you think you might not be able to be committed don't make plans to do anything. Just be unpredictable but don't expect a lot of people to be okay with that.  Good Luck.

~Amore~

Wednesday- Its Just Facebook

Running out of time

Well once again its the beginning of the week, and as you already know its Weekend Recap. Its never enough time to truely enjoy the last two days on the week. If only I was an heir to a multi billion dollar company I wouldn't know what it feels like to work. Oh well.

So on Friday I went to see Jumping the Broom by T.D.Jakes. It was such a great film. All the actors did a wonderful job and really gave you a glimpse into the character portrayed. It would be really nice if there was a sequel to the film.

Saturday I went to Bailey's Bar to see the Mosley and Pacquiao fight. I really don't care for boxing but I'm trying new things in 2011. It was so intense, of course I had to go for the little man thinking he would be quick on his feet. I couldn't have been more right. They call him Pac-man and I could definitely see why. The fight lasted the full 12 rounds and he didn't look tired at all. I became a Pac-man fan that night.

Sunday was Mother's Day so of course I spent the day with my beautiful mother and darling sister.  We had a very nice relaxing time at home just enjoying each others company.    

~Amore~

Tuesday-Breaking Promises

Life in the Fast Lane

Well if you are just waking up from a hangover I'm sad to tell you that today is Monday!!! So get up and get ready to start the work week.  As every Monday I provide you with a little insight to my wild and crazy life (not really).

Friday I went to see Fast Five, the last Fast and Furious movie ( I think). The movie was fantastic! All the actors from the other movies were in the latest film and it was just what i was expecting to see. Fast cars and money. There is one scene in the movie where The Rock and Vin Diesel have it out. All I have to say is that The Rock put up a good fight. The man spit out glass...wild. I would definitely go see the movie again.

Saturday I finally moved everything out of the old place. Next time I'm paying movers to move and setup the new place. Its so time consuming and i just don't have extra time for that. Sunday was very relaxing and spent fixing up the new place. I hope that it can be done within the next few weeks so I can have a house party. Enjoy your week!

~Amore~

Case of the Ex

Hope your weekend was great. Here's a Sunday post since I promised you wouldn't have to wait more than two days for something new.

Be very careful that you don't fall into the trap of the ex. Especially since summer is around the corner. You might catch them at the mall with their friends looking really good. Don't take a second look. Don't think that it could work again. Don't even make eye contact. (just kidding)  Don't even call them to say hello. I say this because they are your ex for a reason. Just think about that last sentence. I will even type it again. They are your ex for a reason. No matter how much you try to make it sound, the subject is the same. Ex.  Meaning they were once apart of something and know its not.

Very simple yet we try to include this ex in many things we do. I can say without a doubt that as you're reading this you are thinking well it was because of this or that reason as to why you didn't last. but really its because of this or that reason that they are an ex. Everytime you think about the ex just say NEXT!!!

~Amore~