Last weeks post I talked to the men about gossiping with other women and how it can cause relationship issues. I also stated in that post that once the info is out women can either help or destroy the relationship. If you didn't read it here's a recap. Pt. 1 Well ladies today I want to address your faults in this issue. Confronting the other woman.
Please do yourself a favor when you realize your relationship issues have been exposed to another woman. Don't confront her...at all.....ever. This is what she wants and you would look like a fool. I won't say she didn't know because she did.. The person you should definitely speak with is your beau. When you confront him don't be the crazy girlfriend. You know the one you see on TV breaking things, yelling while moving herarms all over the place. Instead talk to him in a calm yet stern voice. This will scare the shit out of him. He expects you to go crazy just so he can have a reason to leave. So that the other woman can have him. She wants to destroy what you have and he is possibly stuck in the middle. (unless this is his way of saying I'm done) This is when you have the decision to work it out or leave. Hopefully its not too late to repair the damage that has been created. Only thing is that once he breaks your trust which he has done it takes a lot to repair it. Are you up for the challenge?
~Amore~
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